Tuesday, May 04, 2004

Love is like 2 people filling up a piece of paper...

A relationship starts off as a clear piece of paper. A guy and a gal
agrees to write on that piece of paper. When it >starts, both r excited as
it's their first time working together. They fill up the paper with the
best of things they can think of. Sometimes the guy writes more, sometimes the
gal writes more. Some people writes without thinking much, some writes
after some thought.

As the writing carries on, it gets more and more tiring. The couple
have to be motivated to keep on writing.This is the commitment and
responsibility
of a relationship.As long as the urge to write
continues,the writing will never end.It will carry on paper after
paper until one pen's ink run out. This is eternal love till death do us
apart...

Some couples prefer to write together,some write their own and combine
the efforts.Neither side should be the only one writing,else ink may get
blocked
for the party who writes non-stop. Too tired...
The character of a person is like the handwriting on the paper...
Everyone
has his/her handwriting. It is very difficult to change one's
handwriting.Not impossible but it takes a lot of time and hard work.

The outcome may not be desirable.It is also difficult to imitate the
handwritings of another person.The most one can do is to be tidier or
more
untidy in their handwritings.Sometimes,to make the
writing on the paper look more presentable,it could be necessary for
either
side to slightly alter the style of his/her handwritings...

A mistake in love is like a smudge on the paper... Whether purposely
or
accidentally a smudge is a smudge. No matter how well the writing has
>gone.So far or how lovely is the content, a smudge
will leave a mark no matter how well u cover it (eraser, liquid
paper,
etc.). Whether to keep on writing will depend on the perception of the
couple. Whether they mind the content more or the outlook of the piece
of
work more.

Worst case is when the paper is torn. It'll leave a very ugly mark.
Well,
the decision lies with the couple...To break-off is to stop writing...
Many
reasons can lead to this ending.
One party could be the one writing non-stop and really too tired to
carry
on
anymore. One party or both could be unsatisfied with the content or
really
dislike what each other is writing (it takes time to know the writing
style
of someone,it could be halfway through the paper before it is known).

Or a smudge exists and either one or both mind (depend on their level
of
perfectionism). Or it could be what they r writing r contradicting
each
other. It can also be the case where one party finds another partner
to
write with...
Other analogies... Pen users r serious lovers. Those who use pencils
like
to
test things out first. Some even write drafts with other people
(many-timers).

After a breakup, a photocopy of the writings so far is made and this
is
given to a party while the other keeps the original (for memories).Or
it could be either or neither will keep the writings. It could also be
the original work lies there waiting for the original writers to be back.

A well-done masterpiece could be bound into a book and kept
forever.Likewise in some cases, it may be pieces of paper lying around.Different people
writes different things and have different outcomes.In the case of
people going through many relationships, it's just like changing partners to
work with.
>
Some may write things according to past experiences or have new ideas.
While
writing, the couple may exchange their pens. In a new relationship,
one
party might mind that his/her partner's pen has been used by other
people
before.Personally I believe this also applies to friendship right?

It also requires both parties to play their part to keep the
friendship
forever lasting.


You only live once. What do you really want to do and achieve in life?

Let's think, learn & share. It is a meaningful journey.

Love is In the Air At 8:44 AM
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